I Was the Toxic One

Most people love to play the victim in their own story.

It’s easier. Cleaner. You get the sympathy, the validation, the free pass.

But the truth? Sometimes you were the problem.

I was. And it took me way too long to admit it.

FreeTo.Chat gave me a place to finally own it without the social fallout.

No lectures. No “you’ve changed” comments. No whispers that somehow still get back to the wrong person.

I dropped the confession. Watched the reactions roll in — 🫠, 🧠, 👀 — and realized I wasn’t alone. Turns out, other people have been the villain in their own stories too.

It doesn’t make it okay.

It just makes it real.

And if I ever want to talk it out? Premium gives me the replies to dig deeper.

Because sometimes the only way to stop being toxic… is to start being honest.